- Identify the problem part, the problem behaviour
- Setup direct communication with the problem part, Acknowledge benefits
- Get clear signals from the part. E.g. one hard gets colder or warmer for a certain signal
- Ask the part for the highest positive intention of the part
- Ask the person’s creative part to create new choice or behaviour in fulfilling the intention of the parts
- Check for congruence – ask if all the other parts are in agreement with the new behaviour, if not, to back to 5
- Test and future pace
See also:What is NLP?